The Manosphere’s Archetypes: What Kind of Man Are You?
Geplaatst op 15-01-2025
Categorie: Lifestyle
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There’s been some internal debate within my own mind about what exactly is the difference between the different types of men you find in the Manosphere. I’ve seen some debate about this within the ‘sphere itself, and while I might not be agreed with by all, this is the definition I will be using here on out (for now)
As I see it there are three types of enlightened man
The PUA
This is the Mystery-esque overly intellectual schemer. The guy that approaches getting laid the way nerds approach Dungeons and Dragons. He has spreadsheets, statistics, pick-up lines and routines (a “spellbook” if you will) and even costumes to allow him to leverage himself in any scenario.
The Player
This is the guy who no longer (or never did) thinks about getting laid as a Game. He knows what works and what doesn’t. He’s naturally charismatic and usually narcissistic enough to be in the 90th percentile of physique quality. He’ll hook up wherever he goes because he’s that good. He oozes the necessary traits that make men like him and women want to fuck him.
The Alpha
The alpha is the player evolved. He’s naturally charismatic, interesting, well versed and well traveled. His life reads like the adventure novels of young boys in days past. He IS what men aspire to be and what women aspire to be with. He could have the pick of any women he wants, and he knows it.
Now those are rough descriptions that I think aren’t very arguable (though I’m sure the comments will prove otherwise) and the real point I want to make is this. This is the defining difference between these three men.
The PUA wants to sleep with women
The Player sleeps with women
The Alpha sleeps with the women he wants
Now why bring this up? I feel like there’s some unnecessary connotation attached to the world “alpha” in the manosphere, that being that an “alpha” has to be banging a new girl every week. To me, though, the Alpha could possibly be sleeping with the least amount of women of the three men, but by his own volition. The difference here being, would you rather exclusively and properly date a super model and have sex with her whenever you wanted, or bang a new random 6-7 bar slut every week or two?
I think this is easily imaginable and explainable because a true alpha male would know his value. He would know that he is among a small percentage of men that represent the best out there, and because of that he knows that sleeping with him, allowing his dick inside you and his nut on your body is a privilege. He’s not necessarily gonna go around banging random women because random women A) might not hold up to his standards because he’s transcended just requiring beauty B) aren’t worth the hassle (possibly attempting to knock herself up or just plain old crazy bitchness) C) aren’t even in the picture as the Alpha goes about living a life of adventure and self fulfillment.
I admit I bring this up out of selfishness. I don’t really want to bang 50 new girls in a year. I don’t need a new girl every week or two, that isn’t what makes me happy. I’d rather use my learned skills with women to find the few truly quality women who offer good looks, a low mileage vagina, and a nice personality and then keep them for myself. At the same time I aspire to be the mythic Alpha Male who turns heads and demands respect wherever he goes.